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I have to agree with you. Im 24, and I get grossed out too. I've seen some rough stuff. The first time I saw it I was maybe 14? It was so weird. It looks so degrading, and it doesnt look romantic at all. It makes you think thats why men are always objectifying women because of stuff like this. And you have to remember that music videos are doing the same thing. Honestly. That stuff gets stuck in teenagers' brains, and they wonder why everyone is out trying to have . I think people choose what they want uality based on their first perceptions sometime. If all they ever have been exposed to is negative views of heterouality- that sometimes makes people want to get involved in same relationship. And the exact opposite. Most people you probably know aren't gay because they've been wired by religious teachings and by other people thats it's wrong. To be objective is a good thing, although human perception is never 100 percent objective. But if you really want to know whats good for you, stand back and get a better view of life before you decide whats bad or good. And only you know whats good for you at the end of the day...